I’ve had a lot on my mind lately, but I’ve had difficulty finding time to write about it because I’ve been shuttling back and forth between my house and my girlfriend’s house. It’s lovely that we live all the way across London from each other. Advice for anyone starting a polyamorous open marriage: if you are going to see another partner frequently, keep the commute time down! It takes me an hour and 45 minutes to get to her place. It is completely worth it, but it is killing me!
There are lots of types of open relationships out there. Some folks like to have sex with other people, but only at the same time. Some are only okay with their partners being open to the same gender. Some are okay with polyamory while others are only open to strictly sexual relationships. Some are only half-open. There are many ways to have an open relationship, but rather than delve into that can of worms today, I’m going to tell you about my open relationship.
The Theoretical Setup
In theory my husband and I are open to partners of any gender and potentially any sexual orientation except gay. We are open to both sexual and romantic partners, as long as we remain each other’s top priority. Ideally, a lot of us would be great friends and enjoy hanging out with any of the other partners.